Wisdom is justified by all her children (Luke 7:35)

That is wisdom has many children who are wise yet different. John the Baptist came without drinking wine and eating bread and he was wise. The Lord Jesus came eating and drinking, and He is wise.

The Lord has made it so wisdom is diverse. Man must not live in 1 way and 1 way alone. But men can glorify God diversely.  There are many expressions of wisdom.

The Lord has made His church diverse. Like the limbs of the human body each member has a different function. There is a diversity there. Yet all must walk in wisdom, in the calling that they have been called to.

This means we cannot condemn brothers or sisters simply because they do not do things the way we prefer. The question is are they being wise, if so, that is a good thing. For wisdom is diverse. She is justified by all her children.